The ex left me because I didnt have a job for almost 2 years, I only did some little things on the black market. But I recently met a man who arranged my job over a relationship (I’m not proud of that, but I had no choice). Good position, good starting salary and various overtime bonuses. Now that she found out, she started begging me to reconcile. If I wasn’t good to her as a poor man, I have nothing to do with her now that I live decently.