I am a Serb and my wife is a Muslim. We live in Republika Srpska. My family and hers cant stand each other and neither of them is happy that we are married. Mine dont like her, hers me. And we are so good that we are not interested in either of them. We often ask ourselves how long will this interfaith and interracial intolerance last in BiH? Until when? And what is the goal of my people? Will we ever come to our senses and live normally ?! From our point of view, it may or may not be clear to us how long the small-minded world that is unfortunately the majority will be so primitive and live in the past.

I am a living example that you should not be too good in life, good to everyone and help everyone. I live in a small place where everyone knows everyone and as soon as you smile at someone or say a kind word it immediately turns out to be something wrong. In particular, I work with people at the counter and 5 out of 10 older men think of some things, because I am kind. They start adding me to Facebook, calling me on messenger, buying chocolates for no reason. so hello ?! We are not best friends if I thank you nicely and laugh. I am 23 years old. And the other thing, when you are kind to your friends and you give and allow them everything, they turn against you, one starts betraying your secrets, and the other starts telling lies and making up that I said something about someone and I didnt. So what did I blame anyone for?

I’m in a relationship with a guy I can’t say is bad. He is patient and caring. But I am bothered by his disinterest in me. It’s always me who has to encourage conversation, I’m the one who has to suggest where to walk or support each other. His justification for this is that it creates pressing on him. We recently decided to go to nature, and he was silent the whole time. This time the excuse was work. Since we are in a long distance relationship, we hear each other all the time, he can sometimes tell me that it is hard for him to talk to me. Then it is justified that the causes of depression are the phase from which it is treated. I no longer know what to do, whether to trust him or quit. The worst part is that he avoids talking to me

The girl I went to elementary school with was a great student. Her mother is a nurse and she forced her to enroll in medicine, to be a doctor because it is a powerful and paid position. She enrolled in high school and at the end of the 4th year when she donated blood voluntarily she was there, saying "I came here to get used to this blood, eh but Im disgusted" turning her head and adding that she enrolled in high school so she wouldnt have a medical practice , because she is disgusted to work with people. He will enroll in college, graduate and be a general practitioner who will not have to take the injection in his hand. She enrolled in medicine this year.

The way I survive family gatherings (90% of my relatives are so evil that Mexican soap operas are a little baby) is to pretend to be a spy working on a very important mission. My goal is to find out more and more details and if I get switches and negative comments, I respond politely so as not to reveal my identity

The ex left me because I didnt have a job for almost 2 years, I only did some little things on the black market. But I recently met a man who arranged my job over a relationship (I’m not proud of that, but I had no choice). Good position, good starting salary and various overtime bonuses. Now that she found out, she started begging me to reconcile. If I wasn’t good to her as a poor man, I have nothing to do with her now that I live decently.

The guy talked to another about stupid girls and what are the advantages of having a stupid girl. They are supposed to be fun and make your life happy with their low intelligence. I think he looks at me like a fool and it really hurts me. We don’t have many common themes and I haven’t read them but he knew that before. He could have chosen a smarter one but he didnt like any other, he just fell in love with me. I am stupid to have chosen such a guy, a guy who is worth more than me just because I fell in love, without any common interests and similarities. Im so stupid. And this infatuation will pass soon, the relationship is already in crisis. The more we talk or dont talk because we have nothing to talk about, the more it is in crisis.

Girls please be brave and tell the guys you like. Its a lot easier for you than it is for us men. You will not feel it, no one will judge you, but for a man today it is like a stone around his neck.